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  • Mark 12:45 pm on July 30, 2007 Permalink | Reply  

    Missionary Friends 

    This past weekend Trina and I made a trip out to the DFW area to see our new buds Andrew and Heather get hitched! Andrew and Heather met at Harding and have connections to us through their friend Jonathan, who is the little bro of Daniel, my undergrad buddy and co-conspirator for the Kingdom. Together, Andrew, Heather, Jonathan, Chelle and Lucas have formed a mission team to Chicago while they were together at Harding University through the Outreach America program there.

    We’re only really acquaintances at this point, and though we have similar passions and visions (however rough the drafts may be) for mission work/church planting in Chicago, we don’t know exactly what God has in store for us just yet. So how do we move forward from here?

    We COULD draw up the blueprints of a well-oiled strategy, that drums up support from lots of churches and creates a sense of purpose and gives us outcome-based goals that move us forward intentionally toward a planned future.

    OR we could find a weekend a few weeks down the road (and let the newly weds have a honeymoon!) and plan a weekend together. The only planning is what food to bring – the rest is up to the Holy Spirit. What might happen if we just got together and had a picnic? What sorts of strategies would emerge from a game of putt-putt (besides “bank if off the clown’s nose and through the windmill”)? What if training for team-missions was centered around a barbecue? I think the most strategic focus for missionaries is to simply be friends who like Jesus. The rest will grow from our time in friendship and in shared imaginations.

    It’s like the Fellowship of the Ring. In that intense moment when leaders of men, elves, dwarves and hobbits sat in circle around the Ring, they began with strategy. Almost instantaneously a fight broke out among the dwarf and the elf, and before long everyone was in a distrustful fight against how they would proceed.

    It took a humble hobbit, too small to fully understand his actions, to volunteer not a strategy, but a fellowship.

    “I will take the ring…but I cannot do it alone,” Frodo said. It melts everyone’s fear and hate, and transforms the fighters into a fellowship; a fellowship that would have to learn to trust over time, but before it was over they were willing to give their very lives for one another.

    So could this be an irresponsible way of building a mission team? Might this be expecting too little? Too much?

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    • miller 1:30 pm on July 30, 2007 Permalink

      i think it is in keeping with your banner and the name of this site…

      it is emergent

      it is God grown

      how can it be wrong?

      peace

    • Mark 3:54 pm on July 30, 2007 Permalink

      good call miller – hadn’t thought of that connection.

  • Mark 8:16 am on July 25, 2007 Permalink | Reply  

    Meet Meetup 

    So maybe I’m the delinquent here. Has EVERYONE else already heard of Meetup.com? It is the neatest new discovery on my travels through the web. In case the one other person on this planet who hasn’t heard of this nifty service just so happens to find this post, let me fill you in on what its all about.

    Let’s say you’re new to the area, and you want to meet some people – but the people you work with are all losers or snobs, and you aren’t sure how you managed to have so time to be in clubs/ activities way back in your High School days. Enter Meetup. You have an interest in pugs, or antiquated lawn gnomes, and you search for these topics locally. Meetup hooks you up with those in your area also interested in your strange hobbies and let’s you join in on their events! Before long, you’re standing in a sea of old lawn gnomes and new friends.

    I’ve already used this tool as a way to find others who are interested in sustainable architecture and farmer’s markets in my area. Tons of fun!

    Check out this video below:



    Wouldn’t this be a neat way to naturally and relationally connect with other Christians in your area who are searching out God down similar pathways? Those in more organic-styled church networks are finding it difficult to coordinate times for everyone to get together, but this opens the door, AND it communicates to others in your area about your gatherings. I like this because it allows just about anyone in the Meetup group to organize an event, and let everyone else know about it. It takes the attention off the “leaders” pulling off all the events, and allows Joe to invite everyone over for burgers or Lucy to call all the women to pray over her new-born child.

    Are there some down sides to this? Maybe. Should we be so concerned with meeting people who have similar interests? Is it really SO hard to find friends these days that we look people up on the internet to check them out before meeting with them? What ever happened to baking cookies and knocking on our neighbor’s door?

    Any other thoughts?

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    • Steve 8:35 am on July 25, 2007 Permalink

      We’ve done Meetup a few times (actually, we found out about this group from Meetup.com), but a church planter friend of mine (Taylor Williams) in Quincy, MA, is part of several groups (photography, spirituality, among others). We’ve thought several times about joining a Poodle Meetup Group.

      The only catch is that you have to pay a monthly fee if you start a group, but not if you join an already existing one. Chances are, as is the case in Boston, there are already existing spirituality / Christianity groups in Chi-town.

      We haven’t really gotten into it because there weren’t in our immediate neighborhood, but if one is nearby, it’s a logical way to connect.

    • Taylor W 10:34 pm on July 25, 2007 Permalink

      Steve pointed me over here. A very nice blog both in content and aesthetics. Thanks for contributing to Christ’s presence on the web!

      Meetup has been fun and interesting. I’ve found a few groups that are great and a few that aren’t quite my cup of tea, but getting people together to chat about something deeper than the weather has been great. Like Steve said, I’m part of a large photography group and am an organizer for a board game group. I’ve really enjoyed each group–largely because while I’m with the group I’m doing something I’m passionate about. It sure helps to know before you ever arrive that the people who you’ll be with are also passionate about the same thing. Conversation really flows.

      The danger I’ve faced is spreading myself too thin–either by joining too many groups or by being part of groups that aren’t in my immediate city (which limits the amount of time/interaction I get to have with my fellow Quincians). But all-in-all I’ve really enjoyed using meetup. I’m even considering starting a meetup group for a movie + discussion or other conversation based events to draw people into contact with our Jesus community. We’ll see how it goes.

    • Mike Morrell 7:05 pm on July 28, 2007 Permalink

      Meetup.com was really big several years ago–in fact, my site prominently links some alt.Christian meetups still, as an artifact from those times. Then the site started charging an exorbitant fee for its monthly services (from being free), and most people have abandoned it…at least it seems to me. What seems to have replaced it, at least in my little corner of the universe, are Emergent Cohorts and Julian Meetings.

    • Mark 3:57 pm on July 30, 2007 Permalink

      Taylor and Mike. Great to hear your comments.

      Steve and Taylor – love your site and am praying for Boston regularly.

      Mike – GREAT site, (I’m making more connections all the time through zoecarnate). I agree that paying for community can limit its growth. There is a new website about to go live called “simplechurch.com” and right now it seems to be free to post your community on there….for now.

      It seems like money only slows down what would otherwise be catalytic growth. Hrmm…

  • Mark 3:37 pm on July 19, 2007 Permalink | Reply
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    Missionary Resource Teams 

    200454410-001.jpgSo what might leadership in an organic, Christ-centered network look like? When the “preacher”, “elder” and “deacon” as we have traditionally come to understand those terms have been uprooted, what might emerge from the soil? That is the question that we have been wrestling with lately, and there have been some interesting responses surrounding this that I thought I’d toss around.

    Over the last few years, we have truly seen a wave of Christians leaving church-as-we-know-it and moving into a smaller, more intimate community of friends. They meet as the Church in their living rooms, parks, coffeehouses, and anywhere life happens. We’re also seeing the un-churched or the new believers skip right over institutional churches in favor of simply living life with God and friends.

    But it usually stops there – from my limited research, at this point, no one has anything very developed on missional, organic leadership (save this guy) that extends beyond the local house church.

    My instinct says that if this is to be anything more than a flash in the pan; if there is to be any type of meaningful spiritual nurturing happening, eventually, Christians in these churches realize that they must connect to believers outside of their own little group in order to thrive. That is where leadership comes in.

    Followers of Christ realize that Christ is the ONLY head of the Church, and no one can be a mediator (priest) between Christ’s disciples and himself. If that is the case, if preachers and bishops and pastors and all that aren’t here to predigest God’s Word for us, or to function as judge for God, then what good are they?

    They listen to Jesus, and do what he says.

    It’s that simple, and its a project that will last for the rest of time.

    Some leaders (like missionaries/apostles) will work as catalysts; spreading the vision for God’s New Life anywhere and everywhere they hear Jesus calling them. Paul lived and worked like this. He never pretended to be a church’s Father, (only God could fill that role). He made it clear that God broke through the barriers that separated man and God, and nothing could separate them again. Apostles will start new communities by looking for a “person of peace” (Lk.10, Mt.9) and plant inside them the seeds and the DNA of the Kingdom. Before long, they are moving on.

    Apostles usually gather around them other leaders: prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers. They work together as a team of missionaries to resource an emerging network that is spawned out of others who are listening to Jesus and doing what he says. Working around missional prayer, incarnational friendship, and pastoral discipling, a missionary resource team can participate in seeing a relational network of churches grow. Without preservatives, without burning out, without false structures…this is God’s family at work. (Eph 4:11-16)

    As long as these leaders serve the people they are in connection with by providing resources and opportunities for deeper involvement in God’s family, they will be “organic leaders”. They are the nitrogen in the soil, whereas the seeds are the new communities that are birthed deep down within God’s good earth.

    Spiritual moms and dads will naturally emerge from each of these churches, working with those God has entrusted to them. Usually, they will be the people who have been Christians the longest, though this might not always be the case. Working with a single faith community, these guides into Christ’s life will grow close with those in their spiritual family and transformation will happen!

    –People still like Google because it offers services (like Gmail and collaborative online documents) for free. Even more importantly, they don’t take up your screen with pesky ads like some of the other websites that offer free content or services. They clearly are keeping their patrons first in mind, not their advertisers. In this way, Google is like the missionary leaders of the future. As long as missionary resource teams can function for the network, and not the other way around, you will see healthy growth.

    –Leaders in traditional churches are like an exoskeleton, which allows for structure in an organism (good), but restricts how an organism can grow (bad). Endoskeletons function like leaders in organic church networks, serving “behind the scenes” and allowing the organism to grow and take its own shape.

    The only way for Jesus to truly be the head of his Church, and yet to have leaders who guide networks to become the Bride of Christ that they were called to be is to allow leaders to simple be the PEOPLE they were called to be…deep listeners of Jesus Christ.

    ———

    SO! This is written as a draft – what do you think about it? Can leadership function in this way? Is it possible to have grassroots networks that don’t do the whole corporate heirarchy mess? Do people need human leaders at all? Fill me in and help me think this through!

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    • miller 5:26 pm on July 19, 2007 Permalink

      As long as these leaders serve the people

      they clearly are keeping their patrons first in mind, not their advertisers. In this way, Google is like the missionary leaders of the future

      i have major problems with these statements and the ideas they represent.

      i would say as long as these leaders serve Jesus

      and

      they clearly are keeping Jesus Christ first in mind, not their advertisers.

      but then i think the google analogy would fall apart…

      its not about the people!

      its about Adonai! he serves the people, the people serve him…

      perichoresis!

      humble service to him, attention to him, lets us be used by him to care for his children…

      Jesus said he only does what the Father is doing…

      if we are to be like Jesus it seems we must learn to see and hear and do what the Father is doing.

      IMO

      good post

      peace

    • Benny Nowell 10:19 am on July 20, 2007 Permalink

      “Lack of Hierarchy – Instead of having a hierarchy, SEVENS will be led by a fellowship…a community of leaders sharing their gifts, wisdom, and the weight of their lives to bring a unified voice of direction.”

      This is from our tenets for SEVENS.

      I agree there has to be a new version of leadership for our churches…whatever form they take. I think that the leader that you are describing has to have a few key qualities:

      1. A deep, personal, active, alive relationship with God. They have to serve from a heart that is healed, feed, and shored up by God.

      2. They have to REALLY be able to listen for God’s direction for whatever ministry they have started or are involved in.

      3. They have to completely remove their ego from it all. Because when you are “allowing the organism to grow and take its own shape.”, It’s easy to get your feelings hurt. So maybe more than removing the ego; it should be said that this kind of leader has to really believe that God is in control and nows what He’s is doing. TRUST in God.

      4. This kind of leader has to be completely rid of the old way of thinking of leadership. And view themselves as servants.

      5. This kind of leader has to be the one that can inspire and equip his friends in the organization. Also be the cheerleader, and keep people excited about this family.

      Those are my thoughts. I’ve really been mulling this over as well since I am the leader of a ministry. I want the folks that are involved with SEVENS to be a part of a family/tribe and have a place to use the gifts they’ve been given. I know the kind of leadership we are after is going to create an organization that grows people who love and serve on their own. And won’t wait for the organization to come up with the plan.

      -Benny-

    • Mark 4:54 pm on July 23, 2007 Permalink

      Benny –
      GREAT thoughts on leadership! We’re moving forward in very similar directions, and it is encouraging to hear some of the similar things God is whispering to both of us. I think there is a new reforming of God’s Bride in this country that you and I are both a part of. It’s exciting. (And sorry for the late response! I’ve been out of town!)

      Miller -
      You’re absolutely right – As missional leaders we are to be servants of Christ, not of the people. Of course, that means that the people have to be in tune with Christ, because if the people see that they are no longer being served, and are not connected to Christ, they will revolt! (Look at the Israelites and Moses, who at several occasions almost gave up on each other.)

    • miller 9:35 am on July 24, 2007 Permalink

      the people have to be in tune with Christ

      agreed…

      but i don’t really know what to do about that except be in tune myself…

      peace

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