SAFE Tragedy
I’m currently reading The Tangible Kingdom by Hugh Halter and Matt Smay. It’s been a great book for making practical the esoteric writings of many missional church and emerging church authors. When you hear “embeded incarnational communitas,” what do you think? If you’re like most, your head is full of static. But these guys do a good job of offering simple pracitces to live into. Right now I’m reading four chapters that each divulge 4 rhythms of missional living – they are:
“Leaving” – leaving your place of comfort to be “out there” where people gather.
“Listening” – allowing others to truly feel heard by asking good questions and genuinely finding interest in the lives of others.
“Living Among” – enlarging your view of discipleship to include behave like Jesus would with the types of people Jesus would hang around (celebrate with “sinners”)
“Loving without Strings” – PLEASE don’t equate evangelism with sleazy outdoor sales.
Toward the end of the chapter, the authors mention there is an internal resistance to each of these four rhythms. They are:
Selfishness is the enemy of “leaving”
Arrogance is the enemy of “listening”
Fear is the enemy of “living among”
Expectations are the enemy of “loving”
They actually didn’t spell out “SAFE” in their book – but I just noticed that it so happened to include these four letters. How do you resist the 4 rhythms? For me – “leaving” is the hardest part of missional living. Just getting out of my head, or my home and getting out there with others. Its tough as a family man, and I don’t even have kids!
For me, the SAFE resistances is what has kept millions of Americans from truly hearing/seeing the Kingdom of God. This is tragic.
miller 8:33 am on April 14, 2009 Permalink
great thoughts man…
they sound right on the money because they hit a little too close to home for comfort.
Chadd 11:37 am on April 14, 2009 Permalink
Mark – I’ve been thinking of you all this week…always enjoy reading your thoughts!
Dottie 1:19 pm on April 14, 2009 Permalink
Mark-
Our young adult leadership team at E91 is going to be going through this book soon, so I’m really glad you posted about it! We just finished The Forgotten Way by Alan Hirsch. Good stuff. I can’t wait to dig into this one and see how God transforms our community. Take care!
-Dottie
Mark 1:21 pm on April 14, 2009 Permalink
Forgotten Ways is a fantastic book! I’m glad you guys are reading it – it resembles in many ways the work we’re up to here in Chicago. Tangible Kingdom is like the best “baby steps” book toward what you read about in the Forgotten Ways. Missing you guys!
Kevin Bowman 10:37 am on April 17, 2009 Permalink
As we tell people our plans, and having three kids as we pursue them. People seem to want to accuse us of not wanting our children to be safe. I think your acronym is a great starting point for fleshing out those ideas.
Please know you have my thanks when I plagiarize the idea, and work it out more in our families context on my own blog.
Mark 10:45 am on April 17, 2009 Permalink
Yo doode. Where did the term “safety first” even come from? Why not, “safety THIRD?”
BTW – I’ve tried a few times to subscribe to your blog, but it says there is no feed. I’d love to keep up with your blog, but admittedly I only read ones I can subscribe to. Can you help me out here?
Kevin Bowman 11:08 am on April 17, 2009 Permalink
http://www.kevinjbowman.com/atom.xml is my RSS feed address. I don’t know why it is not showing up on the page. I’ll have to fix that this weekend.