Five Unmovable Principles
Have you read Finding Organic Church by Frank Viola yet? I recommend it – he has steadily grown on me over his last several works, and this is his most practical and reasonable book on the world of starting and sustaining authentic Christian communities.
Viola devotes a whole section of his book to “Practical Steps for Beginning.” His first chapter in that section, “Five Unmovable Principles” is what I want to mention briefly in this post.
These are 5 values, or goals that each person in a house church MUST strive for as they are starting a new community together. Otherwise, it is certainly doomed to become another pet project, run by men and not by God. Viola says that embracing these principles however, will help a community avoid the major pitfalls and disappointments that so many house churches are hammered with in their first year.
…I would say that after years of helping plant house churches, seeing some fail and some thrive, that his list dead on.
They are:
- Become like little children.
- Your feelings will get hurt.
- Be patient with the progress of the group.
- People will leave your group.
- People will experience exciting spiritual growth and healing!
You may have been a spiritual guru in your last church or at seminary, but now you’re called to drop your agenda, gifts, ambitions and simply be a humble sibling in the Lord.  Unlearn as much as you can at the start. Lean on Christ alone.
People will let you down, and you will disappoint others – no getting around it. You will not get your own way. Strangely you will be most offended by the vices in others that most reflect your own. When someone hurts your feelings, that is the moment to see exactly what kind of person you are and want to become in Jesus.
This may be “simple church” but its not simplistic, and its not a microwave! It took 9 months for you to be born, its similar with an organic church. All the unlearning and rebuilding going on in hearts of your church family takes time. Certainly everyone’s clock is not the same as yours, but never fear – there is progress – visible or not.
Be honest, working towards a house church with no regular sermon, large-group worship, children’s classes, etc is a tough shift for many Christians to make – even non-Christians have certain expectations for what “church” is in America. WHEN (not if) people “check you out” and then “shop elsewhere” do your best not to wish them anything but the best, do not judge their motives, and do not pressure them to stay. Maintain instead a liberal atmosphere of freedom and a presence of God’s Spirit.
Don’t forget that it is in this context that people were designed to grow. It is their natural habitat to flourish – socially, and spiritually. It is in intimate, small groups that transformation occurs – and it is in these committed families of love that hold the seeds to upend the world and transform it for GOOD. Watch with expectancy as lives are changed and healed, and as ideas for local mission and service are hatched!
Jay Abels 11:33 pm on January 28, 2010 Permalink
Wouldn’t it be nice if there were just some guarantees and a system that always worked, when you did it right. But, we would loose the excitement of seeing God work and experiencing growth.
Rachael 12:07 pm on January 29, 2010 Permalink
These are great, Mark! I can tell you from me and Stephen’s experience the last year and a half in a more traditional church that all of these same concepts apply
Our church would be much more authentic, spiritual and more successful if everyone was able to remember these things…
Mark 12:22 pm on January 29, 2010 Permalink
Rachael — Thanks for the input! Very truly, people are people, no matter how or where they meet. I agree with you that if we can trust each other enough to take off our masks, we can experience the healing that God intends for us. I appreciate you guys for your willingness to be real with those in the church, and out of it.
Jay — Ha, its true. So quickly and easily do I reduce “EVERYTHING” down to “five unmovable principles” or “three easy to follow steps.” Pour, mix, serve. Voila!~ “Church!” Not so fast… your comment is a good reminder that not even these 5 principles are a guarantee that God’s Spirit will take ahold of a group! Good thoughts.
Jay 8:34 pm on February 11, 2010 Permalink
I remember the first time I dug up a little plot and planted some vegetable seeds. They just didn’t grow according to my time schedule. I managed to pull up a few little carrots trying to speed their growth. Now it is funny, until I think about maybe having uprooted some young Christians who have just sprouted. He gives the increase, but not on our timeline.
Mark G Willis 9:27 am on February 12, 2010 Permalink
Very sobering Jay – regarding the gardening metaphor – I think you might find this OLD video of Frog and Toad interesting!
http://godgrown.net/blog/2007/10/03/frog-toad-and-organic-growth/