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  • Mark 11:30 am on September 4, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    If You Want Spiritual Maturity, then Start a Spiritual Community! 

    Take a look through the Christianity section of any bookstore, look at conferences and organizations like Renovare and Promise Keepers; books, Bibles, podcasts,  and so much more – it seems that in the last decade the shift in the Christian West has moved unarguably toward “maturity in Christ.” Col 1:28 Following Jesus is no longer (truly, was it ever?) just about “fire insurance” – playing nice enough in the “sandbox of life” that you are given the green light to enter heaven when you die.  No, discipleship was never that transactional in Jesus’ eyes.

    The pathway to maturity is a “Way” that ends in intimacy and identifying with God – to become “little Christs” as Martin Luther put it.  But if this is true, then why do so many Christians seem to be slogging through the same demons of immaturity that they were struggling with a decade ago?  In my opinion, its because we’ve forgotten the context and mission in which Jesus calls his disciples: community development.

    Yes, I know “community development” has its own connotations in our culture today – but think about it for a minute:

    What was Jesus Christ’s only investment here on earth? 

    He had no assets, no heirs or lineage to pass on, he had no books (his only written words were in SAND!) (John 8:6), founded no new political party…

    Jesus’ only investment on earth was community…

    Investing-in-community-development is the “Way” Jesus calls us to…

    …Which brings us to maturity.

    Much like parenting that can act as a “turb0-charge” for an individual’s maturity — (no longer does your money go to yourself alone, but now you are primarily focused on the thriving of a young child and the whole family!) — Similarly, when you begin to plant little faith communities, organic churches…even little MICROs, you will find much of the New Testament making more practical sense.  All of a sudden, you’ll find yourself depending on the words of Jesus in listening prayer, (not just coming to him with a list of self-centered requests), and you’ll see the basic mission Jesus commissioned us to begin to orient every part of your life.  ”Go into all the world and make disciples…”

    Yes – if you want maturity, then start a community.  

    Nothing should be more basic to Christian discipleship than this — so why does some leaders in the American Church resist their members from branching out and starting something new?

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    • traviskolder 3:37 am on September 5, 2011 Permalink

      Absolutely.  You will grow in ways you never thought possible.  I have a book on my Amazon.com wishlist called “Spiritual Formation As If The Church Mattered.” Unfortunately I’ve been to busy with my church to actually have time to read it!  But community does call us away from even “the spiritual self,” and that is incredibly healthy for us.  Isn’t it amazing that we have a whole list of spiritual disciplines designed for individuals but almost no corporate spiritual disciplines?  I think you hit the nail on the head Mark.  Great to see a new post. Keep it up.

    • Mark W 3:29 pm on September 5, 2011 Permalink

      Travis — Great point! it is almost astounding to me that today’s Church has such a lack of awareness on Jesus’ strategy of discipleship. It is as if we believe that Jesus left us alone to write the manual on discipleship ourselves! But truly, when he said, “Go and make disciples” he immediately reminded us that “he would be with us always” — like a mentor in the process of disciple-making. So in terms of disciple-making, we can pray the perennial question, “What would Jesus do?” and then look at scriptures like Luke 10, Matthew 9, and so many more to see “What Jesus Actually DID!” But what would you suppose are some of the “corporate disciplines” you mentioned in your comment?

  • Mark 8:05 am on June 1, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    Moving In, Moving On 

    When do you know its the right time to move on?  In developing healthy communities centered on Jesus, a “community developer” or “church planter” has an interesting relationship to the church he (or she) is planting.  He is both a part of the new community, and yet at the same time, he is very much different.  He is meant to move on – to take the risk that the fragile and humble group that has gathered around Jesus is ready to withstand the harshest of times, and whats more, to charge forward against the gates of hell.

    Many times the best thing a church planter can do for a church is to leave it – not out of anger, spite, or revenge for some past misdeed, but out of an interest to remove a sort of scaffolding to truly let the building be what it is to become.

    At times I’ve felt a little like a grandma (I know, weird.)  By this I mean that after a new couple has a child, often a grandparent will stay with the couple to help out around the house, teach a little bit of technique to sooth an infant’s cries, and simply be a loving presence.  However, there comes a day – when Grandma returns home – and that’s when the real adventure begins.

    The apostle Paul found this an extremely useful strategy for developing a faith community – to get out of the way!  For Paul, he was in and out in as little as 9 days, and as long as 3 years.  Similarly, Neil Cole describes in Organic Leadership that mentors and church planters should MAWL their proteges – MAWL stands for:

    • M – model
    • A - assist
    • W – watch, and finally…
    • L – leave.

    It is that last one I have the hardest time with.  Leaving.  I never fully trust that the group can survive without me.

    But as I write those words, what kind of perspective is that?  Why do I think its up to me to keep some flywheel spinning, once its been spun?  I’ll get my hand cut off trying!

    Maybe a little humility and bravery is needed.  Maybe part of what it means to see a vibrant family of Jesus in close reach of every person is not thinking that the family has to get it all right for years on end before the scaffolding can come off.  Could it be that things actually work better through strategic absence of a leader rather than persistent, suffocating presence?

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    • Katrina 7:23 pm on June 1, 2011 Permalink

      Mark – nice post! When the human “leader” fades out, the true Leader appears…

  • Mark 1:14 pm on February 9, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    Momentum Is a Result of Healthy Rhythms 

    All this week we’ve been looking at the MACRO Layer of Christian community – “the congregation,” “the network,” “the region”…

    This is the layer in which it all comes together – where real impact and change become visible!  Whereas a dozen folks that make up a house church (MESO) might bring hope and life to a few neighbors, a dozen or so house churches might just see a revolution of love spill out across the streets of their city!

    Think of the MACRO Layer as the momentum or the chain reaction that comes AS A RESULT of the health of the smaller layers.  When you have healthy rhythms, you’ll get momentum!  Think of a car — the rhythm of the pistons…those tiny tubes of metal…going up and down over and over…it eventually creates a power that propels a giant machine down the road!  The same is true for a church – the smaller rhythms of spiritual health…that is what moves a MACRO forward!

    You’ll never have a healthy MACRO unless everyone involved are a part of healthy one-on-one MICRO relationships, unless each person has a flourishing personal (MONO) relationship with their God.

    So often, Christian leaders pour all of their energy into making the MACRO Layer great -

    …the average church worship service in America takes almost 120 hours a week to pull off!

    (That’s 3 full time staff positions plus dozens of volunteers pouring incredible amounts of money and energy into a 2 hour gathering…EVERY week!)  Exhausting!  We think that if we can just preach the right sermon, or sing the right song…we’ll have an army ready to change the world.

    But this is about as effective as trying to push toothpaste back into the tube.

    It has to flow from the inside, out.

    Imagine if a church, a spiritually nurturing system, poured disproportionate energy into the layers.  The smaller the Layer of Christian community, the more energy leaders invested into it. Start with the MONO Layer – put all your energy into giving folks access to quality tools, resources, and more that develop their prayer life – their life of service and mission… imagine what would happen if you gave more energy to the MICRO Layer (one-on-one friendships, marriages, etc), imagine putting more focus on your small groups than on your Sunday gatherings!

    My bet is that if you did this, your MACRO gatherings would explode with health…

    This works at a personal level too…

    If you are a Christian, or if you are still trying to figure out what you think about Jesus, consider starting at the MONO Layer – put all your energy into discovering the loving God who created you. Then link up with one other person you can trust — and both of you together connect with a tribe of 6-12 other people who are on journey with you.  Then open your eyes to the ever expanding network of Christ-centered relationships you’ll see all across town.  Rely on them, contribute to them.  Let them become your extended family of faith.  That is the MACRO Layer!

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    Sign up for MACRO!

    If you are a part of a small group, house church, or congregation; if you are ready to grow spiritually –  Godgrown is releasing MACRO March 1st – sign up and invite others in your community to learn alongside you!

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